A Dress A Day

A dress.
Mostly every day.

June 15, 2005

A good dress, spoiled

I ruined a dress yesterday.

The dress is (was) one of my favorites -- a vintage pattern, made from a huge abstract print of blue and green, with x's and doughnuts (sorry about the poor description). I had just shortened the skirt to this summer's preferred length, and I had been looking forward to wearing it again.

I didn't spill ketchup down my front, or tear it climbing over a fence, or burn holes in it by running into someone holding a lit cigarette (which is actually a phobia of mine, come to think of it). No, I ruined the dress by wearing it on a day of such vast suckiticity that I think I won't be able to wear it again.

No, nobody died, and there was no blood and very little betrayal, but there was a lot of bleh concentrated into a small space.

I had another favorite dress that I ruined by wearing it on an unhappy birthday. I didn't realize that dress had been spoiled for a while -- I would keep putting it on, and expecting to feel that favorite-dress happiness, and things would just sour, inexplicably. Until I realized what was going on, and gave the dress to Goodwill.

I should really give this dress to Goodwill right away, cut my losses, but I'll probably try to salvage it. Hope springs eternal. (I need to take in the bodice a bit, anyway, as I've lost a little weight since last summer. Maybe that will cure the bad dress karma.)

Today I am wearing an alphabet-print full skirt that is bad-day-proof. I hope. Wish me luck.

7 Comments:

  • At Jun 15, 2005 8:22:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I, too have had to dispose of things (not necessarily clothes) that become "contaminated" by bad memories. I hope the alterations help!

    Sometime I hope you will post pictures of the dresses you make!

    Ang.

     
  • At Jun 15, 2005 9:23:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hmmm...wash it in salt water? Smudge with sage? Pity to lose a favorite dress 'cos of bad vibes.

    =(

    --Lydia

     
  • At Jun 15, 2005 11:08:00 AM, Blogger blackbird said…

    I had a blouse like that. On the final day of total suckiness I mentioned (read whined) to my mother that every time I wore this red blouse bad things happened.
    Right there and then she took IT OFF ME AND THREW IT IN THE DUMPSTER behind my apartment.

     
  • At Jun 15, 2005 2:33:00 PM, Anonymous dowdydiva said…

    Oh, I hate to hear that.

    Maybe you can wear it out to something you just know is going to be great. Or wear a pullover sweater over it to fool the fates into thinking it's a skirt.

     
  • At Jun 15, 2005 7:22:00 PM, Anonymous Sue said…

    Hm, I've never had clothes containminated by events. Places, songs, movies, yes. Clothes, no.

     
  • At Jun 18, 2005 1:44:00 PM, Anonymous Haggis said…

    Maybe a third times a charm clothes swap? It seems a shame to toss the no longer faves without the potential for a new fave coming in, esp. if the personally unlucky is fabulous in every other way.
    Think lovers . . .

     
  • At Jun 29, 2006 2:49:00 PM, Anonymous melissa said…

    when my ex and i split up, i had clothes that i couldn't bear. i gave them away to friend w/ one condition--they had to have a good memory in the article of clothing and tell me about it.

    one dress was worn when this woman met a man. last time i saw her,a few later, they were still together.

     

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